“LIKE APPLES OF GOLD IN SILVER BASKETS”

INTRODUCTION: Solomon is saying that an observation or reproof or advice should come naturally - not forced or dragged into the conversation. He is talking about the skills of communication.

1. Points to ponder
   1. Impossible not to communicate
   2. Implies a commitment to care.
2. The complete message
   1. Tone of voice: 38%
   2. Non-verbal: 55%
   3. Actual words: 7%
3. The five breakdowns of communication
   1. Inability to distinguish between an inference and a fact.
      • (Job 13:12 NLT)
        Look, I have seen many instances such as you describe. I understand what you are saying. I know as much as you do.
   2. Jumping to Conclusions
      • (Proverbs 18:13 NLT)
        What a shame, what folly to give advice before listening to the facts.
   3. Habit of Unteachability
      • (Proverbs 23:12NLT)
        Commit yourself to instruction; attune your ears to hear words of knowledge.
   4. Giving Words Our Own Meaning
      • (Job 34:3 NLT)
        Just as the mouth tastes food, the ear tastes the words it hears.
   5. Polar Drift
      • (Proverbs 12:18 NIV)
        Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.

“Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in your sight, oh Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.” Psalms 19:14